What Do I Do When Someone Dies in Delaware?
A step-by-step checklist for the days, weeks, and months after a death, with the state's rules, deadlines, fees, and official forms noted on the steps they apply to. Free PDF.
Frequently Asked Questions
Request 10-15 certified copies from the funeral home or state vital records office. You will need these for banks, insurance companies, government agencies, and other institutions. Each institution typically requires an original certified copy. Order from Delaware Department of Health and Social Services - Office of Vital Statistics. Fee: $25/copy. Available: online, mail, in-person.
State law sets the order of who has the legal right to decide burial, cremation, or other disposition. A written pre-need designation by the deceased, if one exists, controls. Confirm who holds this authority before arrangements are made. State law sets the order of who controls disposition of remains. Order: The decedent, acting through a declaration instrument; then Surviving spouse, if not legally separated from the decedent; then Appointed personal representative or administrator of the estate (or the nominee for that office if no appointment has been made); then others in statutory order. A written pre-need designation by the deceased, if one exists, controls over this order.
Evaluate whether the estate qualifies for small estate procedures or if full probate is required based on asset values and types. Small estate affidavit available for estates under $50,000. Informal (unsupervised) probate available.
Submit the original will (if any) and petition to open probate. You will need to pay filing fees and may need to post a bond. Statewide form: Petition to Act as Personal Representative. Bring the completed forms to a qualification appointment with the Register of Wills; there is no petition filed with a court. Counties may require additional local forms. Filing fees vary by estate value. Informal probate available. Typical duration: 12-18 months.
Once appointed by the court, obtain letters testamentary (with will) or letters of administration (without will). These prove your authority. Letters Testamentary are issued by the Register of Wills of the county (New Castle, Kent, or Sussex), after the will is proved / petition is granted; contested matters go to the Court of Chancery. The state's title for the role is Personal Representative (executor if testate, administrator if intestate). Typically brought to the appointment: Original will and any codicils (proved before the Register of Wills); Certified copy of the death certificate (Kent requires the original certified copy and returns it after scanning; 12 Del. C. § 2309 separately requires a certified copy be filed where the decedent held an interest in real property); Completed county Petition to Act as Personal Representative (sworn before the Register); Completed county Case Information Sheet / Worksheet; Apostille, where the will or death certificate was issued outside the United States; Oath of the executor/administrator (subscribed; § 1509); Renunciation forms from any equal- or higher-priority persons who decline to serve (intestate; § 1505); Bond only if required by the will or ordered by the Court of Chancery (not required by default; § 1522); Irrevocable power of attorney filed with the Register if the representative is a nonresident (§ 1506).
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Petition for Probate and Letters
Prepare the application to open probate and request Letters Testamentary or of Administration.
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Prepare the creditor notice for an estate — the official state form or a notice typeset to statute, plus mailed notices for known creditors.
Renunciation of Executor
Decline an appointment as executor — the writing filed with the court, drafted to your state's rule, with its deadline and filing office.
Affidavit of Heirship
Prepare the sworn statement of a deceased person's family history and heirs for recording in the county land records, composed to your state's statute with its recording instructions.
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Prepare the affidavit that collects a small estate's property without probate — the official state form or an affidavit drafted to statute, plus a presentation letter for each holder.
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