
You don't need to know everything today. But understanding your duties — and your rights — helps you serve the estate well.
An executor (in many states, the personal representative) is the person named in a will to carry the estate through probate. The role is not honorary and it does not begin automatically: until the court appoints you and issues Letters, you have no authority to move a dollar. The petition that gets you appointed is the real first task.
From there the job is a sequence, and it is the same sequence almost everywhere: inventory and secure the assets, get the estate a tax ID, give creditors the notice the statute requires, pay the valid debts and the final taxes, and only then distribute what is left. In 32 states, independent administration lets you do all of it without returning to a judge for approval at each step. Expect a bond, too — 35 jurisdictions require one unless the will waives it, and most wills do.
You are a fiduciary, which is the part people underestimate. You answer to the beneficiaries and to the court, and the one mistake that reliably costs executors their own money is paying the beneficiaries too early. Creditors have 2 to 12 months depending on the state; distribute before that window shuts and a late valid claim can land on you personally.
Being named executor doesn't obligate you to serve. If you can't or don't want to, the court appoints the alternate named in the will, or the next eligible person under state law.
Probate begins when you file the will and petition the court for Letters. Until the court issues them, you have no legal authority to close an account, sell a car, or pay a bill from estate funds.
Formal notice to everyone named in the will, and to known creditors. Newspaper publication is required in most jurisdictions, and it is what starts the creditor clock running.
Identify, value, and safeguard everything the estate owns before anything moves. The inventory you file is the baseline every later decision is measured against.
Valid claims, final income taxes, and any estate tax come first. Creditors have 2 to 12 months depending on the state — distributing before that window closes is where executors become personally liable.
Executor compensation is set by statutory schedule in 15 jurisdictions and by a reasonableness standard in the rest. It is taxable income to you, which is why family executors often waive it.
Locate the original will and any codicils
Decide if you're willing and able to serve
Order certified death certificates — how many do you need?
See how appointment works in your state
Check whether self-filing probate is realistic in your county
If the estate is under your state's limit: use a small estate affidavit instead of opening probate
Prepare the petition to open probate and request Letters
Use our Estate Settlement Plan for step-by-step guidance
Get the estate's tax ID — prepare the EIN application
Give the notice to creditors your state requires, and track the claim deadlines
Collect assets from banks and insurers — write the letter each one asks for
Recover balances in online accounts and reward programs — request them in writing
Calculate your compensation with the Executor Fee Calculator
Estimate costs with the Probate Calculator
File final tax returns for the decedent and the estate
No. You can decline to serve. If you do, the court will look to any alternate named in the will, or appoint someone according to state law — usually a spouse, adult child, or other close relative.
It depends on which regime your state uses. 15 jurisdictions set executor compensation by statutory schedule — typically a sliding percentage of the estate, so the fee is arithmetic rather than argument. The rest apply a reasonableness standard, where the court weighs the size of the estate, the work actually required, and your skill. Either way it is taxable income to you, and beneficiaries who are also inheriting frequently waive it to take the money as an inheritance instead. See exactly what your state permits with the Executor Fee Calculator.
Often, but usually not in practice. 35 jurisdictions require the personal representative to post a bond — an insurance policy protecting the beneficiaries against your mistakes — but nearly every state lets the will waive it, and most well-drafted wills do exactly that. If the will is silent, or there is no will, expect the court to require one, with the premium paid from estate funds.
Yes, and personal liability is real. You are a fiduciary to the estate and its beneficiaries: mismanage the assets, blow a tax deadline, or distribute improperly and the shortfall can come out of your own pocket. The most common way executors get burned is not fraud — it is paying the beneficiaries before the creditor window closes (2 to 12 months, depending on the state) and then facing a valid claim with an empty estate. Track the creditor deadlines and settle the debts first.
Typically 6-18 months, and the court is rarely the bottleneck — the creditor claim window is, running 2 to 12 months depending on the state and having to close before the estate can safely distribute. It also depends on the regime: 32 states allow independent administration, where you act without seeking court approval at each step, which is dramatically faster than supervised probate. Contested wills, tax issues, or hard-to-value assets extend everything.
Stay neutral, follow the will exactly, document everything, and communicate clearly. If disputes escalate, the court can provide guidance — or you can petition to have a professional executor appointed instead.