What happens to Care.com account when the owner dies
Care.com, Inc. has a formal process for transferring account after an account holder dies
Care.com Customer Care
Care.com, Inc. - Legal Department (no dedicated estate team published)
Care.com, Inc., Attn: Legal Department, 2801 N. Central Expwy, Suite 1150, Dallas, TX 75204
Care.com publishes no timeline for a deceased-member or estate request, because it publishes no such process; these are handled individually. Three published windows do apply around the edges. A concern submitted through the Help Center form gets an email reply "typically within 1-2 business days." A privacy request made through the privacy web form gets a response "within 30-45 days or as required by law." And a cancelled membership runs to the end of the current billing term - access continues until then, and the account page shows the date the plan changes to a free guest account.
Care.com publishes no deceased-member or estate-succession process. Its Terms of Use (last updated October 14, 2025) contain no death, deceased, estate, executor, or heirs provision, and a scan of all 233 published Help Center articles found no such article either. The Terms state that a member "may not assign or transfer your account to any other person or entity, or permit any other person or entity to use your account" (Section 3.2, Exclusive Use), and reserve to Care.com the right, in its sole discretion, to "immediately terminate your access to all or part of the Care.com Site and/or Services" (Section 5, Termination) - so there is no beneficiary designation, no self-service account transfer, and no undertaking to hold an account open. Because no rule is published, anything an estate asks for is decided ad hoc, which is why the policy is recorded as case-by-case rather than as a forfeiture or an estate transfer. The money is narrow. Care.com removed the option to send a booking request on January 20, 2026 and ended in-platform bookings and payments on February 28, 2026; it now tells caregivers that "as of March 1, 2026, all jobs posted on Care.com pay outside the Care platform" and that "direct deposit through Care.com is not currently available," and tells families that "payment takes place outside of the Care.com platform." So no account holds a payout balance, and Care.com states it "does not have any enforcement or mediation capability in disagreements or misunderstandings between families and caregivers" - unpaid wages are owed by the family, not by Care.com. Where a household used HomePay (Breedlove & Associates, LLC, a Care.com company), pay was direct-deposited into the caregiver's own bank account, so those funds are located through the caregiver's bank. What does still cost the estate money is the subscription: a paid membership auto-renews indefinitely until cancelled, payments are non-refundable "even if you close your account or cancel your membership, subscription, service, or product in the middle of a term" (Section 8.6), add-on subscriptions cancel separately, a HomePay subscription is not cancelled by cancelling the Care.com membership, and an Apple-managed subscription can only be cancelled through the App Store. One further sequencing point matters more than any of it: Care.com states that closing an account means "removing access to and history of all your Care.com information, including messages to and from caregivers," so records an estate may need should be requested or exported before the account is closed.
How to request a transfer
To request a transfer of Care.com account after an account holder's death, follow these steps:
- •On the desktop site: the Me menu, then Account & Settings or Settings & Privacy, then the My Plan section, then Cancel Subscription or Cancel Plan.
- •If the subscription was bought through the Care.com iOS app and is managed by Apple, Care.com cannot cancel it - open the App Store app, tap the profile icon, tap Subscriptions, tap the Care.com subscription, and cancel there.
- •Add-on subscriptions such as Unlimited Background Check or Feature Your Job Post cancel separately from the Manage My Memberships page. Care.com notes that for add-ons purchased before October 10, 2025, the whole membership subscription has to be cancelled to stop the add-on charges.
- •Care.com sends a cancellation confirmation email with the date, and the account page shows the date the plan changes to a free guest account.
- •If the account cannot be reached, ask Care.com Customer Care to cancel it and confirm the final charge date in writing.
- •Cancelling the subscription alone does not close the account. Care.com says so directly: if you only want to stop recurring payments, "you can cancel your subscription without closing your account - that way, you can still access your jobs and messages in the future."
- •On a caregiver account there is a PAUSE option that Care.com describes as keeping "your profile, account information, applications, and message history ... on file for you to use in the future" - the non-destructive choice while an estate is open.
- •Care.com states that a family account cannot be closed through the iOS app; closure runs through the desktop site after the subscription is cancelled.
- •Work from the decedent's own records: Care.com tells caregivers that "the best place to review your payments from your past bookings is in your own email," because it emailed a receipt from hello@care.com every time a payment was processed. Search the decedent's inbox for that sender.
- •Care.com's record of which families the member corresponded with or applied to is the remaining trail to who may still owe wages. Request it in writing before the account is closed, since closure removes it.
- •Any wage claim itself is made against the employing family, and is a claim of the estate under state law rather than something Care.com collects.
- •A HomePay subscription bought inside a Care.com account is cancelled from the Manage My Memberships or Account & Settings page; one bought directly from HomePay is cancelled by contacting the HomePay team.
- •HomePay bills as "Breedlove & Associates, LLC" on the card statement, which is how an unexplained recurring charge on the decedent's statement is identified.
- •Payroll, pay-stub, direct-deposit, and tax-document questions go to HomePay at [(888) 273-3356](tel:+18882733356), not to Care.com Customer Care. Care.com publishes info@myhomepay.com on care.com/homepay and clientservice@myhomepay.com in its HomePay help articles; both are live Care.com-published addresses.
- •Wages HomePay paid are in the caregiver's own bank account. Trace them through the bank, not through Care.com.
Required Documents
- Certified copy of the death certificate
- Documentation showing you are authorized to act for the estate (for example, Letters Testamentary or Letters of Administration)
- The email address on the Care.com account
- Government-issued photo identification for the person making the request
- The decedent's card statements showing the recurring Care.com charge, and any "Breedlove & Associates, LLC" charge, so the right subscriptions are identified and cancelled
Timeline
Care.com publishes no timeline for a deceased-member or estate request, because it publishes no such process; these are handled individually. Three published windows do apply around the edges. A concern submitted through the Help Center form gets an email reply "typically within 1-2 business days." A privacy request made through the privacy web form gets a response "within 30-45 days or as required by law." And a cancelled membership runs to the end of the current billing term - access continues until then, and the account page shows the date the plan changes to a free guest account.
Frequently asked questions
Care.com publishes no deceased-member or estate process, and its Terms of Use make the account non-transferable - it may not be assigned or transferred to anyone else, and no one else may use it. There is no beneficiary designation. The estate contacts Care.com to report the death, cancel any recurring paid membership, ask for the billing history, and ask for whatever record it needs before the account is closed. Because no rule is published, each request is decided case by case.
No. Care.com ended in-platform bookings and payments on February 28, 2026 and tells caregivers that as of March 1, 2026 all jobs posted on Care.com pay outside the platform, and that direct deposit through Care.com is not currently available. There is no in-app balance. Care.com also states that it "does not have any enforcement or mediation capability in disagreements or misunderstandings between families and caregivers," so unpaid wages are a claim against the family who employed the caregiver. Care.com tells caregivers that receipts for past bookings are in their own email, sent from hello@care.com - searching the decedent's inbox for that sender is the fastest way to reconstruct what was paid.
No. A Care.com paid plan auto-renews indefinitely until cancelled and is non-refundable, so it keeps billing the card on file each term until someone cancels it. Cancel it from the desktop site under Account & Settings, then My Plan, then Cancel Subscription. If the subscription was purchased through the Care.com iOS app and is managed by Apple, Care.com cannot cancel it - it has to be cancelled in the App Store. Add-on subscriptions such as Unlimited Background Check or Feature Your Job Post cancel separately, and a HomePay subscription is not ended by cancelling the Care.com membership.
Cancel the billing right away; close the account last. Care.com states that closing a family account means "removing access to and history of all your Care.com information, including messages to and from caregivers," and that closing a caregiver account means "permanently removing access to and history of all your Care.com information, including messages and applications." It also says cancelling a subscription without closing the account leaves the jobs and messages reachable. On a caregiver account there is a pause option that Care.com describes as keeping the profile, account information, applications, and message history on file. Get the billing history and any correspondence record out first.
HomePay by Care.com, provided by Breedlove & Associates, LLC, a Care.com company, is a separate payroll service that direct-deposits wages into the caregiver's own bank account. Those funds are located through the caregiver's bank, not held by Care.com. Care.com states that "canceling HomePay does not cancel your Care.com membership, and canceling your Care.com membership does not end your HomePay subscription," and that HomePay appears on a card statement as "Breedlove & Associates, LLC." Payroll, pay-stub, and tax-document questions go to the HomePay team at (888) 273-3356.
No. Care.com's Terms of Use state that a member "may not assign or transfer your account to any other person or entity, or permit any other person or entity to use your account" (Section 3.2, Exclusive Use). There is no documented beneficiary designation and no self-service transfer. A surviving family member who needs care creates their own Care.com membership rather than taking over the deceased member's account.
Care.com publishes no required-document list for a deceased member, because it publishes no deceased-member process at all. Requests of this kind normally call for a certified death certificate, documentation showing authority to act for the estate such as Letters Testamentary or Letters of Administration, the email address on the account, and photo identification for the requester. Bring the decedent's card statements as well, so every recurring charge is identified. Confirm the exact documents with Care.com Customer Care, whose published hours are Monday to Friday, 8:00 am to 6:00 pm Eastern time.
There is more than closure. Beyond cancelling the recurring membership and its add-ons, an estate can ask Care.com to refund the unused portion of a prepaid term and reverse any charge posted after the date of death, to provide the account's billing history so post-death charges can be reconciled and disputed, to preserve the account's records while the estate is opened, and - for a deceased caregiver - to provide the record of which families the member corresponded with or applied to, since that is the trail to wages now owed off the platform. The refund request runs against Care.com's published refund policy and its Terms of Use, which state that payments are non-refundable with no credits for unused or partially used subscriptions even if the account is closed mid-term, so it is a discretionary courtesy request. Care.com decides each of these at its discretion; there is no published procedure.
Once transferred, account are subject to the program's standard terms. Having the deceased account holder's details documented in advance makes the transfer process significantly easier for the family.
Sources
Data sourced from Care.com, Inc. primary sources (16 pages reviewed). How we research.
Care.com Customer Care
Care.com, Inc. - Legal Department (no dedicated estate team published)
Care.com, Inc., Attn: Legal Department, 2801 N. Central Expwy, Suite 1150, Dallas, TX 75204
Care.com publishes no timeline for a deceased-member or estate request, because it publishes no such process; these are handled individually. Three published windows do apply around the edges. A concern submitted through the Help Center form gets an email reply "typically within 1-2 business days." A privacy request made through the privacy web form gets a response "within 30-45 days or as required by law." And a cancelled membership runs to the end of the current billing term - access continues until then, and the account page shows the date the plan changes to a free guest account.
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